The ESFP Personality Type

esfpESFPs are genuine and down to earth people who love to entertain. They are naturally drawn to the spotlight and live for great conversations and new experiences.

ESFPs love people and they love to talk, plain and simple. They are masters at telling a good story and can talk for hours about just about anything. They are naturally social and get an energy boost after big social gatherings. These people can garner the attention of an entire room just by being themselves and having a good time. They are spontaneous people by nature and this is one of the biggest reasons why they are such entertaining people. Don’t be surprised if an ESFP friend of yours randomly breaks out into song just to put on a smile on your face.

These people thrive on change and excitement. They are always searching for the next new exciting thing to catch their attention. Boring routine and too many rules put these people to sleep. They need flexibility and freedom in their lives or they will quickly become depressed. The school setting for example may be tough for those with this personality type. They may goof off or have trouble focusing in class, although this is not the case for all ESFPs of course.  Higher level education such as college is generally not too appealing for those with this personality type unless they are studying something that really lights the fire in their chest.

The arts are often very appealing to ESFPs. Musicians, actors, dancers, anything that allows them to be creative and stay in the spotlight will be attractive career paths.  Many famous performers such as Adele, Jamie Foxx, and Elvis Presley share this personality type. These people have a great sense of style and like to take care of their appearance. They are very conscious of their image and love to stay current with newest trends.

ESFPs can be impatient about getting what they want. They can be impulsive and tend to indulge in a lot of instant gratification. You wont find these people making too many long term commitments as they would much rather take life as it comes. They like to leap at opportunities as they present themselves and find life much more thrilling that way. Long term planning is the bane of the ESFP.  They really don’t like to worry too much about the future and like to live their life day by day.

ESFPs are also very sensitive to criticism. As a result, they can be quite reluctant when it comes to asking others for advice. Even constructive criticism can be hard for them to handle at times and they often find themselves taking things too personally. This is one of their biggest weaknesses, although they become better at dealing with this as they mature. Their sensitivity, poor planning skills, and their tendency to self-indulge a bit too much are the biggest areas that need focus in their lives.


The functions:

Dominant: Extraverted Sensing
Auxiliary: Introverted Feeling
Tertiary: Extraverted Thinking
Inferior: Introverted Intuition

For any ESFPs out there looking for an in-depth guide you may want to check this out. For strengths and weaknesses, relationships, careers etc…


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The INTP Personality Type

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Information is their fuel, and their primary mode of living is in their head. They seek to explain everything logically and work tirelessly when they find something that actually interests them.

These people seem to day dream like nobody’s business. Their mind just takes them places and they can seem aloof at times in their appearance as a result.

There is a reason why they are always in their head and it’s because they are always thinking. Their dominant function is Introverted Thinking(Ti) so their minds are always working to prove, disprove, or create new theories about things. They believe that it is possible to explain everything logically. An INTP lives in a world of logic, and feelings seem to be the least important part of that world. Not that they are cold hearted people who are unable to love, it’s just that they prefer to keep feelings and logic separate. The best way to piss off an INTP is to base all of your decisions off solely feelings or intuition, for that does not compute in the brain of an INTP. Be prepared for a long and thorough debate if you insist on arguing an illogical point to an INTP.

INTPs are not solely Ti however, they have intuition to support them too. This is what makes the INTP a huge force to be reckoned with on an intellectual level. Their auxiliary function: Extraverted Intuition (Ne) allows them to gain a deeper insight than with just thinking alone. It is also the main source of their curiosity and gives them the ability to deal with mental problems in a swift manner. Their intuition allows them to see the possibilities before they even try to prove it with logic. It gives them a glimpse into the future per se.

Their tertiary function is Introverted Sensing(Si). It’s greatest benefit is likely the ability to remember the past in great detail. At least, past experiences that actually meant something to them. Things that actually mean something to them are the only thing they will put energy towards. School can be a hit or miss for these people. Schooling as a child is often stressful for INTPs. However, should an INTP as an adult choose to invest their time into higher education and study a subject that they are actually passionate about then they will likely attract success that is far beyond the norm. It not surprising to hear about INTPs who do terrible in school as a child and then grow up and wow the world with their intellectual prowess – *cough* Einstein *cough*.

INTPs love to solidify their theories and ideas by bouncing them off of other people first. This may confuse people at first because their theories are often incomplete at the time. They have an intense desire to understand and come to a conclusion about things. They are generally drawn to anything that they cannot fully understand, even things that are of the divine nature could catch the attention of an INTP. In fact, it is things like this that often drive them the most. Purely for the sake of satisfaction they will work tirelessly to make sense of and ultimately prove or disprove whatever they set their sights on. They will not be content until it makes sense in their head (the world of logic), plain and simple.

Day to day activities, routines, and things that don’t stimulate their mind are a struggle for these people. They are generally quiet and reserved, especially when meeting new people. With Extraverted Feeling (Fe) being their inferior function, social interaction can also be a real struggle. But people aren’t really their thing anyway so whatever. They prefer a quiet place where they can be alone so their mind can wander freely. Freedom is a necessity for these people. Rigid rules, mundane schedules and boundaries only hinder their mental and creative abilities. They prefer to work in bursts of inspiration on whatever catches their eye. They may research one subject for a few days and then get bored and move on to the next without a second thought.

Dominant function: Introverted Thinking (Ti)

Auxiliary function: Extraverted Intuition (Ne)

Tertiary function: Introverted Sensing (Si)

Inferior function: Extraverted Feeling (Fe)


My personal experience:

So there was this girl that I met in the smash community (Competitive Super Smash Brothers). I was in Las Vegas at the time and I had just won one of their local tournaments. She walked up to me afterward and asked me to play, I refused, forgot the reason why, but we ended up adding each other on Facebook afterward.

After that day she started messaging me all day everyday. It startled me. I didn’t really understand what was going on at the time, was she a fan of mine? Did she have a crush on me? Seriously, any INFJ who received that much attention from someone of the opposite sex would automatically assume they are in love with them. I would reply at first but then I started ignoring her. I wouldn’t read her messages for days, but she continued to send them. I didn’t understand, what did she want? A lot of her messages were not even directed toward me either it seemed. It was like she just needed to get her thoughts out of her mind, yep, I became her sound board before I knew it.

At some point I started to reply to her because she was seriously relentless in her messages. I eventually got to the bottom of things turns she did not have crush on me, she just wanted to learn that badly. She wanted me to teach her and she wanted to learn everything I knew about the game. She just wanted me for my information, ha. But I couldn’t refuse. If she was really that passionate about the game then I figured why not, maybe I can learn something too.

So I told her everything I knew and I played with her regularly. She had a lot of potential too, it wasn’t just me who saw it. I had a tough time convincing her that she was actually good at the game though. She suffered from extreme self doubt. She was very good at learning and coming up with new strategies and attack patterns but when it came to actually applying what she learned in actual combat she doubted herself too much. When she lost it was the most depressing thing ever. It got to the point where I didn’t even want to play her anymore because she would just shit talk her self every time she lost. I think she valued learning more about the game than she loved actually playing it. She was still very good though.

During the time frame that all of this happened was actually when I discovered I was an INFJ. I told her how much it changed my life and how it made me feel. Her response was a bit cold for how much emotion I put into the message, but she acknowledged it. After that I researched all of the types, introduced her to MBTI and she ended up accepting that she was an INTP relatively easily after I pointed out all of the quirks in her personality.


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The ENTP Personality Type

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ENTPs are idea people with a deep understanding of the external world. Their intuitive abilities allow them to see the world as an oyster filled with possibilities just waiting to be explored.

When an ENTP finds something that lights the fire in their chest they truly give it their all – thanks to their dominant function: Extraverted Intuition(Ne). But it has to be something that they enjoy or they will lose interest fast.  They may switch from one hobby to the next, thoroughly enjoying each one, or it could be a series of projects that each individually satisfy them in different ways. In fact, this is often what their entire life looks like, a series of projects. However, should an ENTP ever be compelled stick to one thing they are truly passionate about, the results are likely to be spectacular.

Routine bores them, and the school setting may restrict or possibly even alienate them. When an ENTP isn’t being challenged, they get bored and slack off. Even if they consider the subject easy. If it can’t stimulate their mind then they will likely just rush through it to get it over with. An ENTP’s pursuit for passion and inspiration in their work should not be blocked or restricted by any means. They will feel trapped, imprisoned, and discontent with life.

These people love a good debate and their conversational prowess is something to admire. They are much more interested in learning from, and absorbing information than they are in making decisions (which is not one of their strong points).

Their auxiliary function: Introverted Thinking (Ti) allows them to think critically and develop strategies. They are often called the ‘inventors’ because of their natural creativity, their ability to think outside of the box seeing a variety of possibilities, and their ability to think logically and objectively. Improvising and coming up with a quick solution is one of their greatest assets, and getting what they want from people is one of their specialties.

They can be very convincing when they utilize their Extraverted Feeling (Fe) to butter up the people around them. If used this way then the ENTP can be manipulative and difficult to trust at times. With proper development of their Fe this usually nothing to worry about and the ENTP can become great at accommodating the needs of others, as well as keeping harmony within their social circle.

ENTPs also know how to relax. Their outer personality can appear child like at times, and they often have trouble with discipline. When something really catches their eye then they can be very energetic about exploring it. However, they can switch up and become an intellectual thinker that commands respect from those around them in a heart beat. They may still retain their child like joy, but they often enjoy pondering deep and philosophical issues. They can come off as insensitive at times due to their strong desire for things to make sense logically. More sensitive types should be wary when trying to challenge one of these people to a debate.

Dominant function: Extraverted Intuition (Ne)

Auxiliary function: Introverted Thinking (Ti)

Tertiary function: Extraverted Feeling (Fe)

Inferior function: Introverted Sensing (Si)


Extra comments:

I lived with an ENTP/Sagittarius friend of mine for about 2 months. We both play competitive smash brothers – this dude @ZenyouX, his Mario is pretty amazing I can’t even lie.

We definitely had our differences when it came to living together, mostly dealing with space and alone time. Besides that, I would say the experience was quite pleasant, no huge arguments or fights or anything.

He is still a really good friend of mine too. He is one of the very few people who I can actually talk to about all of this stuff. He came over to my apartment just a few days ago and we were chatting it up, discussing zodiac signs and INFJs and ENTPs and ESTPs and the universe and !!….anyway, when I was first learning about Depth Psychology/MBTI, he was the one who I would bounce my thoughts and ideas off of. I think the greatest connection we shared was our disinterest in common and mundane conversations. We both really enjoyed talking about things on a much deeper level such as the universe or psychological issues or religion. He said he enjoys the fact that I ask him deep questions that make him think. I personally enjoy the fact that he can answer those deep questions honestly, and it gives me a new perspective that can further my understanding on certain issues.

The ENTP + INFJ combo can be really amazing in my opinion. But only if boundaries are kept, and mutually understanding is applied.


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The INFJ Personality Type

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Often misunderstood due to their complexities, their mysterious aura never fails to bewilder onlookers and acquaintances.

These people are driven by an inner vision of the future possibilities generated by their dominant function – Introverted Intuition (Ni). To support this, they have their auxiliary function – Extraverted Feeling (Fe) – which orientates them toward people, tells them to keep harmony, and urges them to blend in with the surrounding environment.

This inner vision for the future involves people too. If you have an INFJ in your life that you are really close to then you can probably rest assured that you are included in their vision too. Unless of course, they secretly hate you because you crossed the line and broke one of their inner laws…

Anyway, this vision of theirs is completely internal and is kept hidden from all. Unless you can pierce the tough barrier that INFJ’s tend to always have up. But even if you pierce the barrier, it is highly unlikely that they will reveal all of themselves to you in one go. If you do manage to gain their trust then they will slowly reveal things about themselves, and then suddenly you’ll be connecting and relating about pretty much everything.

When it comes to making decisions, INFJs trust their intuition above all else. They do have support for this though, as their tertiary function – Introverted Thinking (Ti) allows them to apply logic to their decisions too. Thanks to this, people with the INFJ personality type are able to do many things, and their career possibilities are pretty broad. However, due to being a highly sensitive introvert, they generally tend to migrate toward more peaceful/introvert friendly careers. A career that allows them to utilize their Fe is highly sought after such as writing, music, counseling, teaching, and social work.

The previously mentioned combination of “Ni + Fe” also has a special effect that is unique to the INFJ personality type. It allows them to generate possibilities and insights about well, people! This is why the INFJ is often called the counselor. They have all of this great information to just dish out to people and they love to listen to real issues that people are going through. Small talk or mundane conversations are generally not of interest. What they really want to talk about are things with substance, or passion, something real.

An Empath is another word to describe these people. They are very sensitive to the energies and the emotions of those around them. They can feel what the people around them feel, and they can pick up on many subtle things that no one seems to notice. Again, this is explained by their Ni + Fe. As a result, if there is a lot of negative energy around a person with the INFJ personality type then it can directly affect them. It can even manifest into physical ailments if it gets really bad. On the other hand, positive energy is also mirrored. So they try to surround themselves with people who they can trust, and who bring positive vibes.

They can also be very moody. Like one second they are happy and smiling and then woah, now they’re depressed. What happened? Who knows…there are too many things that can affect an INFJ’s mood. It’s probably something that happened in the external environment however – someone is being too loud/negative, someone crossed one of their hidden boundaries, or maybe they are just tired.

The INFJ personality type is primarily introverted so they use up their energy when they are around people. Depending on the environment, their energy can near the empty mark pretty fast. When this happens then they will retreat into their head or just leave altogether. A big thing that can ruffle an INFJ’s feathers is when people don’t respect their need for privacy and alone time. They simply cannot be around people for too long, and if they need a few days to themselves then that should be respected and not questioned too much. Something to strongly avoid would be to make them feel bad about it.

At times, the image that these people project to the outside world is an extraverted one. Keep in mind that this is only when they are under the watch of other people. It is when they are around people that they switch on their Fe, almost like a mask. With this mask they can become outgoing, talkative, and can blend in quite well to many environments. They do much better in one on one conversations than they do in groups. They love being able to focus and relate to just one person, and a group just complicates things, plus it adds more things to worry about.

They are generally deeply concerned about humans on all levels. The state of humanity as a whole, the homeless guy down the street, their best friend from high school, and they cannot tolerate blatant injustice or unwarranted malice towards others.

Finally, INFJs also have Extraverted Sensing (Se) as their inferior function. They tend to dive into the wonders of Se whenever they are stressed and fed up with the world.This involves behaviors such as overeating, over indulgence in sensual pleasures, etc…pretty much anything that will allow them to relieve their stress.
An INFJ with well developed Se and proper self discipline will learn how to control those urges with time. Utilizing Fe is actually a great way for these people to express themselves and they generally feel a whole lot of relief when doing so.

 The functions

Dominant – Introverted Intuition (Ni)

Auxiliary – Extraverted Feeling (Fe)

Tertiary – Introverted Thinking (Ti)

Inferior – Extraverted Sensing (Se)

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