Numerology – Life Path Number 4

In Numerology, your life path reveals the traits and skills that you possess to make your life a rewarding one. By studying your life path you will be able to figure out the best way to live your life as smoothly as possible.

If perhaps you are struggling in anything from your career, to your personal relationships, then this is the number that you will want to take a solid look at.

You can calculate your life path number here —> Cafeastrology.com

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You can calculate it yourself by taking a look at the example below.

First take a look at your full birth date.

06/21/1983

Next, add all of the numbers together.

6 + 2 + 1 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 3 = 30

The sum of all the numbers is 30.

However, in Numerology you have to reduce down as far as it will go.

30 reduces down to 3. 30 = 3 + 0 = 3.

So your life path number will be 3 in this case.


Life path number 4

If your life path number is 4 then you have a need for structure and organization in your life. Not only do you need these things to feel sane, you will find that your greatest success will come when you approach things in an organized manner.

You possess a hard working nature and your determination knows no bounds. You are understanding, responsible, and cautious. You also have great respect for rules and authority. Not only that, you understand why such things are necessary for society to function. Rules and structure are your life line. If there are no rules in place then you will create some for yourself. You cannot stand being in a chaotic environment where the people do not even understand the meaning of the word organization.

Those who posses the number 4 are the builders of the world. You will approach life with a sense of practicality. Slowly but surely, you will make your mark in the world as you put in the work and watch the time you invest turn into something real and tangible. You work well by yourself but can also excel in the group setting as long as everyone is on the same page. 

Negatively, you may be prone to panic attacks when faced with chaotic situations. Change is something that you find hard to deal with because you are most comfortable when things remain the same and follow a routine. Be careful of your tendency to become too controlling because it can become a roadblock to your path to success.

Ultimately, your purpose is to turn your dreams into reality by using your structure based nature to build and create. Craft the life of your choice, and make sure you have a well thought out plan.

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The ESFP Personality Type

esfpESFPs are genuine and down to earth people who love to entertain. They are naturally drawn to the spotlight and live for great conversations and new experiences.

ESFPs love people and they love to talk, plain and simple. They are masters at telling a good story and can talk for hours about just about anything. They are naturally social and get an energy boost after big social gatherings. These people can garner the attention of an entire room just by being themselves and having a good time. They are spontaneous people by nature and this is one of the biggest reasons why they are such entertaining people. Don’t be surprised if an ESFP friend of yours randomly breaks out into song just to put on a smile on your face.

These people thrive on change and excitement. They are always searching for the next new exciting thing to catch their attention. Boring routine and too many rules put these people to sleep. They need flexibility and freedom in their lives or they will quickly become depressed. The school setting for example may be tough for those with this personality type. They may goof off or have trouble focusing in class, although this is not the case for all ESFPs of course.  Higher level education such as college is generally not too appealing for those with this personality type unless they are studying something that really lights the fire in their chest.

The arts are often very appealing to ESFPs. Musicians, actors, dancers, anything that allows them to be creative and stay in the spotlight will be attractive career paths.  Many famous performers such as Adele, Jamie Foxx, and Elvis Presley share this personality type. These people have a great sense of style and like to take care of their appearance. They are very conscious of their image and love to stay current with newest trends.

ESFPs can be impatient about getting what they want. They can be impulsive and tend to indulge in a lot of instant gratification. You wont find these people making too many long term commitments as they would much rather take life as it comes. They like to leap at opportunities as they present themselves and find life much more thrilling that way. Long term planning is the bane of the ESFP.  They really don’t like to worry too much about the future and like to live their life day by day.

ESFPs are also very sensitive to criticism. As a result, they can be quite reluctant when it comes to asking others for advice. Even constructive criticism can be hard for them to handle at times and they often find themselves taking things too personally. This is one of their biggest weaknesses, although they become better at dealing with this as they mature. Their sensitivity, poor planning skills, and their tendency to self-indulge a bit too much are the biggest areas that need focus in their lives.


The functions:

Dominant: Extraverted Sensing
Auxiliary: Introverted Feeling
Tertiary: Extraverted Thinking
Inferior: Introverted Intuition

For any ESFPs out there looking for an in-depth guide you may want to check this out. For strengths and weaknesses, relationships, careers etc…


Don’t know your personality type? You can find out here

Why should I care about the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator?

What is the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator?

MBTI, or the Myers-Briggs Type indicator is one of the most popular personality tests in the world today.

The underlying theories were generated by the well known father of analytical psychology, Carl Jung. However, the test was created by Katherine Myers-Briggs and her daughter who took Jung’s theories and developed it into something that anyone can understand and benefit from.

Despite its popularity, it has received a lot of mixed reviews over the years. Some people swear by its accuracy and effectiveness, while others doubt its credibility entirely.

The following are some of the practical uses of MBTI in your personal life:

  • To better understand yourself and those close to you.
  • To help find a career path suitable to your needs and preferences.
  • To better communicate with various types of people.

So…should I care or not?

Well the answer to that question depends on you, and only you. For some, MBTI could be the magical solution that changes your life for the better. For others, it could just complicate things and be a complete waste of time.

I say give the test a try and if it’s helpful then it’s helpful, if not the move on. There is really no harm in trying in my opinion.

My personal experience with MBTI

Note: There will be bias in my words because of how life changing the test was for me personally, but ultimately you should come to your own conclusion about the test.

Personally, my experience with MBTI was life changing. Discovering MBTI completely changed my life for the better and it is a big part of the reason why this blog exists today!

My personality type is INFJ and it is the rarest type that approximately only 1-2% of the world shares. To read more about the INFJ personality type you can check out this article that I wrote a little while back.

It hasn’t even been a full year since I discovered MBTI and figured out my personality type. It was around November last year that I made the discovery and the experience was so significant that a whole lotta tears flowed. Finally everything started to click and my life started to make sense after so many years. Honestly, it was the most relief I had ever felt in my entire life.

The reason why it was so significant was because I always had really bad anxiety issues that I was unable to pinpoint. I felt lost for the majority of my life and couldn’t find a solution to the problem. I was comparing myself too much to other people and it made me a very insecure person. I was always trying to ‘fix’ myself so that I could be like everyone else.

Discovering MBTI let me know that there was nothing wrong with me and that I should be proud to be who I am. It let me know that I am not alone and that there are other people out there who experience the same issues. Since making the discovery I have been a lot better at managing my anxiety and I am gaining more confidence in myself every day (though I still have a long way to go).

So for me MBTI is an indispensable tool. It is a tool that I use to further understand myself as well as those close to me. I honestly don’t know where I would be without it at this point..probably still lost, confused, and anxious..


If you are interested in finding out your personality type then you can take a free test here: https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

If you would like, feel free to post your personality type in a comment below or share your own thoughts about MBTI.  Has the test helped you in a significant way?

The Twelfth Sign of the Zodiac – Pisces – February 19 – March 20

Pisces

Ruler: Neptune  Color: Sea Green Symbol: The Fish Element: Water Quality: Mutable

Pisces are the dreamers of the zodiac. They are sensitive, empathetic, and creative people who possess a vivid imagination.

Pisces are known for their lively inner world. They are true dreamers right down to the core and spend much of their time in their own heads. They are no stranger to wild fantasies and they day dream like nobody’s business. This is why their outer appearance often appears dream-like, or detached. Escapism is common for these people. Pisces have the tendency to escape into their own heads whenever they are fed up with life. This is because they are ruled by the planet Neptune, which is all about illusions and fantasies.

The intuition of a Pisces is one of their greatest assets. They rely on their intuition to avoid unpleasant situations. They get these unexplainable feelings when they know danger is coming. The same feeling may surface when someone is telling a lie, or trying to deceive them. It is extremely difficult to lie to a Pisces so you might as well not even try; they are pretty much walking lie detectors with the ability to see through people.

Pisces, represented by the fish, are a water sign that is in touch with the sensitive and emotional side of themselves. They are very good at hiding this aspect of themselves and are experts at keeping their emotions under wraps. However, keep in mind that these people are indeed sensitive and rarely forget when hurt by someone they care about. Pisces are naturally forgiving and understanding people but they do have a limit. Do not be surprised if they swim away from a relationship or a friendship because someone crossed the line and broke too many of their values.

Pisces are naturally romantic and sensual by nature. They secretly dream of one day finding someone who will love them unconditionally and accept all of their little quirks. When a Pisces falls in love with someone they can get really attached. It can be hard for them to give up on love even in the worst of situations. They seek compromise and will do anything they can to avoid conflict with their loved ones. If a Pisces you are close to displays such qualities then you should hold on to them dearly, you may regret it if they swim away from you because of a lack of appreciation.


Have you seen your natal birth chart before? Your zodiac sign can tell you valuable information about your personality but there is much more to be revealed.

The Eleventh Sign of the Zodiac – Aquarius – January 20 – February 18

AquaRuler: Uranus Color: Light-Blue  Symbol: The Water Bearer  Element: Air  Quality: Fixed

Natural born visionaries – these people are original, independent, and have great leadership qualities.

Aquarius-born seek to change the world according to their own unique vision. These people loath inequality and unfair situations. They can picture an ideal world so clearly in their head and can become depressed or angry when they see blatant injustice within the world. An Aquarius will not blindly discriminate or hold prejudice, instead they will try their best to see all sides of a situation and ensure that there is equality and balance. However, these people can be very stubborn in their ways and their mood can change in the blink of an eye. Try not to freak out if they disappear on you every now and then to go do their own thing because sometimes they simply need to get away from all of the bullshit.

These people need their freedom and loathe feeling restricted. If unwillingly put in a restricting situation they will surely rebel at some point and it will not be pretty. They wish the exact same freedom for everyone else too and just want everyone to find their own path in life. People who only follow the crowd and conform to the standards of society will only get on their nerves. Aquarians are humanitarians at heart but it may not always be clear to people who cannot see beneath the surface. They do care about people but they show it in a weird way that is not obvious for everyone to see.

Those born under the sign of Aquarius like to take a path through life that is out of the ordinary. They will stay true to themselves even if it means being branded an ‘outcast’ or a ‘rebel’. The way they view the world is often far from the norm and they hold pride in that. It will take some time to understand an Aquarius on a deep level because their thinking patterns are so unique. Making friends with an Aquarius can be pretty tough because these people are known for being distant towards those they first meet.

Aquarius-born are prone to shyness and they will likely appear distant to those who first meet them. These people do not express their emotions as readily as others and can come off as cold-hearted to those who barely know them. You really have to get to know an Aquarius before you make judgments about them though because once they open up you will definitely see a different side of them. Do not be afraid of their distant or detached outer appearance and be patient as you interact with them. Eventually you will reach their core and discover the loving and protective side of an Aquarius. An Aquarius holds those close to them very dearly and will do anything to protect them.


You zodiac sign only scratches the surface, have you seen your Natal birth chart before?